Decisions

I came across this dialogue in watching a movie and here it goes……………

A guy who is in lots of trouble looks up towards the sky and shouts “Zinda hun….Main bhee Zinda hun” and the sky replies “ mujhe kyun shikayat kar rahe ho, yeh zindagi tumhari hai , is zindagi ke fainsle tumhare hain…so jis se tum guzar rahe ho tumhare hee faisle the, so mujhe mat shikayat karo”

Kitni sahi baat hai yeh hamarai zindagi hai aur hamein haq hai hum jis tarah marji ise jayen par kya is zindagi ke sare fainsle bhe hamare hain…………????????? Do we really take our own decisions without any force……? Ok this life is ours but from childhood only we have to admit the decisions our parents take…ok at that time we are not mature enough to take decisions so its ok….but when we grow up do we take decisions for ourselves….no the decisions are taken by the situation we are in , the society we are in……..we always take decisions dependent on the circumstances and never our own decisions………but why is this so why cant we take the decisions of our will …why we are sometimes forced or sometimes helplessly moved into decisions that we don’t want………..and if we do that with our own consent why do we then repent our decisions??????

I don’t know the answer but I think its because we sometimes care for others more than we do for ourself that we are forced to take decisions other like, we sacrifice our happiness for them so that they can be happy…no matter how much we suffer due to that decision , no matter how much pain we undergo we never show it , and always show that we are happy so that others can be happy…….

Though this Life is ours but the Decisions never are……………….

I was Just Never in it

I thought i was playing the game but instead the game was playing with me
and i was just never in it,

I dint realised it earlier and thought that i was fighting against destiny but instead i was fighting with myself only
and i was just never in it,

The early jubilations gave me hope but instead i came to know that these hopes are just as false as a girl's promise
and i was just never in it,

I dint wanted to be sad and frustrated and wanted to be calm but instead my heart as well as brain are crying over my present state
and i was just never in it,

I thought i can use the chances that are given to me and show my caliber but instead chances used me and i made a mockery of myself
and i was just never in it,

I always believed truth and hardwork always pays but instead i paid my life my innocent moments over it
and i was just never in it,

I believed true love is sacred and it always cherishes u but instead it is one of the most ridiculous things that can happen to a person and it makes u a useless helpless creature
and i was just never in it,

I always preferred self respect over anything but instead today i am the pitiful guy everybody laughs at
and i was just never in it,

In the end i know one thing doesn't matter how hard u try u get what u deserve and i believed i deserved this only ....

i was just never in it...
i was just never in it.....

Written By:- Sammy

Where did We go Wrong

It seems as if just yesterday
We were together, we were one
We were a melody in a harmonious song
Me the notes ,you the music
But, now it seems to be gone
We cannot change the things we have done
We can not change the past
We can learn from our mistakes
To make our friendship last
Where did it slip away
In just a brief time
Where did we go wrong
That I am not yours, and you're not mine
That we have turned into strangers
I apologize for what I done
Or was it something I did not do
Please help me to understand
Where did we go wrong
I apologize from my entire heart

I love You

Written By :- Sammy

Perfection Through my Eyes

All I ever wanted was to be part of your heart,
And for us to be together, to never be apart.

No one else in the world can even compare,
You're perfect and so is this love that we share.

We have so much more than I ever thought we would,
I love you more than I ever thought I could.

I promise to give you all I have to give,
I'll do anything for you as long as I live.

I hope that one day you'll come to realize,
How perfect you are when seen through my eyes

wriiten by:- sammy

Friends........

Well I don’t know what is forcing me to write this post but I feel like expressing myself who are friends…………….? The people who help us when we are in need , who stand by us whenever we are in trouble , who motivate u when u are down…in short who are with u whenever u need them. By god’s grace I have some of the best friends one can hope for……….among boys Nagender,Sudeep,Ashu,Swinder,Rohit…………and the list just goes on and on…there is no stopping it…..and among girls…..Fancy, Anjana , Anshul…..and above all of them I have a friend, my bestest Friend- …so that shows I have got more than my share of friends. They have helped me whenever I needed them….but what is forcing me to write this post is something different. I would like to ask the question….does friendship only means helping each other , turning towards each other whenever we need the other person…I don’t know why but I am feeling its more a one way process jab bhee humein koi kam hota hai hum doosre se baat karte hain nahin to hamein koi khas fark nahi padta ke doosre kee life mein kya ho reha hai? Does friendship is only when u are together ? what happens to it when u part ways and are away from each other busy in our own lives……………kya yehi dosti hai kee sath ho to dost hain par door jane par koi parvah nahi…..i don’t want to take anybody;s name here but I am feeling this since past few days……doesn’t friendship means helping your friend when he/she is right to the extent you can help……..why we have to see whether we are right or wrong while helping our friend when we know we are doing good for him? The golden rule of friendship is keeping friendship above than everything then why some of the friends always keep on giving excuses….busy , problems , no time and all other stuff which can be easily avoided if you have the intention of helping others. Personally speaking I don’t know how good a frrd I am but I can say one thing honestly that I help my frnds without ever thinking the results of it …my aim is to help and that I do….i lower my ego whenever we have clash or fights and say sorry so as to continue our friendship.. because to me it means a lot. I cant say the same abt my friends how they feel but sometimes I expect the same from them …if I can forgo anything for them why cant they? Why I have to listen to excuses like …”sumit it is not possible ; sumit it is wrong ; sumit I am very busy ; ……and in the end sumit I cant help”. and then no matter how much angry I get end of the day I have to forget everything and still be frnds……

Your friend need u , and u keep on giving lecures on morality and truth as if the other person is a evil person….tell me what should one do then….should one keep on helping them without expecting anything in return ….feeling helpless when ever one needs help….when you don’t understand the other person feelings you don’t have any right to comment on it…and if being frnds for more than years still u cant understand the other person I am sorry its not friendship…its talking advantage of somebody’s goodness…………I don’t know what I am writing is write or wrong or is suitable for being published in the blog but I wanted to express myself that’s why I have to do it……..so the question remains in my mind and I have no answer to it……. IS THIS FRIENDSHIP?????????????????

Things you miss/wish in life

1. **5 minutes ago you were traveling to office at 80 mph. in your brand new car. Now you are traveling to hospital at double the speed in an ambulance, you wish there was 'undo (ctrl + Z)' in life!

2. **You are already late, and your key is missing, you wish there was 'find tool (ctrl+F)' in life!

3. **You are a bankrupt, after investing in some weird business, you wish there was 'rebuild all' in life!

4. **The train is so crowded that you cannot get anywhere near that nice girl at the other end, You wish there was 'zoom & view full screen' in life!

5. **After marriage you realize that there is bound to be a mismatch, you wish there was an valuation period' or at least a 'sample download' or a 'demo version'!

6. **One day you realize that you are turning bald, you wish there was 'cut and paste (ctrl + X)/(ctrl + C)' in life!

And the best one is ..........

7. **The best part of the keyboard is U & I are together which is not always there in life......

World's funniest Joke

well i think mera blog abhi tak bahut senti fenti hua pada hai so lets post something that can trickle your funny bones..........so here i am posting the world's Funniest Joke that won in a survey by a UK company. Here it goes..........

A couple of New Jersey hunters are out in the woods when one of them falls to the ground. He doesn't seem to be breathing, his eyes are rolled back in his head. The other guy whips out his cell phone and calls the emergency services. He gasps to the operator: “My friend is dead! What can I do?” The operator, in a calm soothing voice says: “Just take it easy. I can help. First, let's make sure he's dead.” There is a silence, then a shot is heard. The guy's voice comes back on the line. He says: “OK, now what?"

and this joke was just ahead of the next one which came second........

Sherlock Holmes and Dr Watson go on a camping trip. After a good dinner and a bottle of wine, they retire for the night, and go to sleep.
Some hours later, Holmes wakes up and nudges his faithful friend. "Watson, look up at the sky and tell me what you see."
"I see millions and millions of stars, Holmes" replies Watson.
"And what do you deduce from that?"
Watson ponders for a minute.
"Well, astronomically, it tells me that there are millions of galaxies and potentially billions of planets. Astrologically, I observe that Saturn is in Leo. Horologically, I deduce that the time is approximately a quarter past three. Meteorologically, I suspect that we will have a beautiful day tomorrow. Theologically, I can see that God is all powerful, and that we are a small and insignificant part of the universe. What does it tell you, Holmes?"
Holmes is silent for a moment. "Watson, you idiot!" he says. "Someone has stolen our tent!"

so see for yourself which one is better and until then keep laughing and rolling.......