I came across this dialogue in watching a movie and here it goes……………
A guy who is in lots of trouble looks up towards the sky and shouts “Zinda hun….Main bhee Zinda hun” and the sky replies “ mujhe kyun shikayat kar rahe ho, yeh zindagi tumhari hai , is zindagi ke fainsle tumhare hain…so jis se tum guzar rahe ho tumhare hee faisle the, so mujhe mat shikayat karo”
Kitni sahi baat hai yeh hamarai zindagi hai aur hamein haq hai hum jis tarah marji ise jayen par kya is zindagi ke sare fainsle bhe hamare hain…………????????? Do we really take our own decisions without any force……? Ok this life is ours but from childhood only we have to admit the decisions our parents take…ok at that time we are not mature enough to take decisions so its ok….but when we grow up do we take decisions for ourselves….no the decisions are taken by the situation we are in , the society we are in……..we always take decisions dependent on the circumstances and never our own decisions………but why is this so why cant we take the decisions of our will …why we are sometimes forced or sometimes helplessly moved into decisions that we don’t want………..and if we do that with our own consent why do we then repent our decisions??????
I don’t know the answer but I think its because we sometimes care for others more than we do for ourself that we are forced to take decisions other like, we sacrifice our happiness for them so that they can be happy…no matter how much we suffer due to that decision , no matter how much pain we undergo we never show it , and always show that we are happy so that others can be happy…….
Though this Life is ours but the Decisions never are……………….
2 comments:
Well.. This is what we call life.. Full of compromises.. Even though decisions r not ours, the choice of taking them is ours.. coz we see our happiness in those who will be happy coz of the choices we make..
Sometimes we repent on decisions we take of our own,without any pressure.. Maybe its because our priorities change..
I believe one should not regret whatever decision one has taken.Abide by ur decision n respect it no matter whatever are the consequences. If u don't respect your own decisions, the destiny will also not respect your dreams.
While taking decisions one should keep in mind that every living being gets only one chance to live as a human which gives him a very responsible and great power of Liberty.Make a judicious use of your liberty. Think n analyse whether any impediment is greater than your own happiness and dreams n then take a decision.
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