Friends........

Well I don’t know what is forcing me to write this post but I feel like expressing myself who are friends…………….? The people who help us when we are in need , who stand by us whenever we are in trouble , who motivate u when u are down…in short who are with u whenever u need them. By god’s grace I have some of the best friends one can hope for……….among boys Nagender,Sudeep,Ashu,Swinder,Rohit…………and the list just goes on and on…there is no stopping it…..and among girls…..Fancy, Anjana , Anshul…..and above all of them I have a friend, my bestest Friend- …so that shows I have got more than my share of friends. They have helped me whenever I needed them….but what is forcing me to write this post is something different. I would like to ask the question….does friendship only means helping each other , turning towards each other whenever we need the other person…I don’t know why but I am feeling its more a one way process jab bhee humein koi kam hota hai hum doosre se baat karte hain nahin to hamein koi khas fark nahi padta ke doosre kee life mein kya ho reha hai? Does friendship is only when u are together ? what happens to it when u part ways and are away from each other busy in our own lives……………kya yehi dosti hai kee sath ho to dost hain par door jane par koi parvah nahi…..i don’t want to take anybody;s name here but I am feeling this since past few days……doesn’t friendship means helping your friend when he/she is right to the extent you can help……..why we have to see whether we are right or wrong while helping our friend when we know we are doing good for him? The golden rule of friendship is keeping friendship above than everything then why some of the friends always keep on giving excuses….busy , problems , no time and all other stuff which can be easily avoided if you have the intention of helping others. Personally speaking I don’t know how good a frrd I am but I can say one thing honestly that I help my frnds without ever thinking the results of it …my aim is to help and that I do….i lower my ego whenever we have clash or fights and say sorry so as to continue our friendship.. because to me it means a lot. I cant say the same abt my friends how they feel but sometimes I expect the same from them …if I can forgo anything for them why cant they? Why I have to listen to excuses like …”sumit it is not possible ; sumit it is wrong ; sumit I am very busy ; ……and in the end sumit I cant help”. and then no matter how much angry I get end of the day I have to forget everything and still be frnds……

Your friend need u , and u keep on giving lecures on morality and truth as if the other person is a evil person….tell me what should one do then….should one keep on helping them without expecting anything in return ….feeling helpless when ever one needs help….when you don’t understand the other person feelings you don’t have any right to comment on it…and if being frnds for more than years still u cant understand the other person I am sorry its not friendship…its talking advantage of somebody’s goodness…………I don’t know what I am writing is write or wrong or is suitable for being published in the blog but I wanted to express myself that’s why I have to do it……..so the question remains in my mind and I have no answer to it……. IS THIS FRIENDSHIP?????????????????