Decisions

I came across this dialogue in watching a movie and here it goes……………

A guy who is in lots of trouble looks up towards the sky and shouts “Zinda hun….Main bhee Zinda hun” and the sky replies “ mujhe kyun shikayat kar rahe ho, yeh zindagi tumhari hai , is zindagi ke fainsle tumhare hain…so jis se tum guzar rahe ho tumhare hee faisle the, so mujhe mat shikayat karo”

Kitni sahi baat hai yeh hamarai zindagi hai aur hamein haq hai hum jis tarah marji ise jayen par kya is zindagi ke sare fainsle bhe hamare hain…………????????? Do we really take our own decisions without any force……? Ok this life is ours but from childhood only we have to admit the decisions our parents take…ok at that time we are not mature enough to take decisions so its ok….but when we grow up do we take decisions for ourselves….no the decisions are taken by the situation we are in , the society we are in……..we always take decisions dependent on the circumstances and never our own decisions………but why is this so why cant we take the decisions of our will …why we are sometimes forced or sometimes helplessly moved into decisions that we don’t want………..and if we do that with our own consent why do we then repent our decisions??????

I don’t know the answer but I think its because we sometimes care for others more than we do for ourself that we are forced to take decisions other like, we sacrifice our happiness for them so that they can be happy…no matter how much we suffer due to that decision , no matter how much pain we undergo we never show it , and always show that we are happy so that others can be happy…….

Though this Life is ours but the Decisions never are……………….

Friends........

Well I don’t know what is forcing me to write this post but I feel like expressing myself who are friends…………….? The people who help us when we are in need , who stand by us whenever we are in trouble , who motivate u when u are down…in short who are with u whenever u need them. By god’s grace I have some of the best friends one can hope for……….among boys Nagender,Sudeep,Ashu,Swinder,Rohit…………and the list just goes on and on…there is no stopping it…..and among girls…..Fancy, Anjana , Anshul…..and above all of them I have a friend, my bestest Friend- …so that shows I have got more than my share of friends. They have helped me whenever I needed them….but what is forcing me to write this post is something different. I would like to ask the question….does friendship only means helping each other , turning towards each other whenever we need the other person…I don’t know why but I am feeling its more a one way process jab bhee humein koi kam hota hai hum doosre se baat karte hain nahin to hamein koi khas fark nahi padta ke doosre kee life mein kya ho reha hai? Does friendship is only when u are together ? what happens to it when u part ways and are away from each other busy in our own lives……………kya yehi dosti hai kee sath ho to dost hain par door jane par koi parvah nahi…..i don’t want to take anybody;s name here but I am feeling this since past few days……doesn’t friendship means helping your friend when he/she is right to the extent you can help……..why we have to see whether we are right or wrong while helping our friend when we know we are doing good for him? The golden rule of friendship is keeping friendship above than everything then why some of the friends always keep on giving excuses….busy , problems , no time and all other stuff which can be easily avoided if you have the intention of helping others. Personally speaking I don’t know how good a frrd I am but I can say one thing honestly that I help my frnds without ever thinking the results of it …my aim is to help and that I do….i lower my ego whenever we have clash or fights and say sorry so as to continue our friendship.. because to me it means a lot. I cant say the same abt my friends how they feel but sometimes I expect the same from them …if I can forgo anything for them why cant they? Why I have to listen to excuses like …”sumit it is not possible ; sumit it is wrong ; sumit I am very busy ; ……and in the end sumit I cant help”. and then no matter how much angry I get end of the day I have to forget everything and still be frnds……

Your friend need u , and u keep on giving lecures on morality and truth as if the other person is a evil person….tell me what should one do then….should one keep on helping them without expecting anything in return ….feeling helpless when ever one needs help….when you don’t understand the other person feelings you don’t have any right to comment on it…and if being frnds for more than years still u cant understand the other person I am sorry its not friendship…its talking advantage of somebody’s goodness…………I don’t know what I am writing is write or wrong or is suitable for being published in the blog but I wanted to express myself that’s why I have to do it……..so the question remains in my mind and I have no answer to it……. IS THIS FRIENDSHIP?????????????????

My Love life depending on my Birth Date

Your Birthdate: February 13

You don't love lightly. For you, love is always a serious undertaking. However, you are able to love many types of people. You can bring out the best in almost anyone. Love surprises you often. You never know when or where you'll find it next. Number of True Loves You'll Have: 1 Number of Times You'll Have Your Heart Broken: 5 You are most compatible with people born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd, and 31st of the month.

What Does Your Birth Date Mean For Your Love Life?

The beginning

So the first post … I think its time yours truly sammy also gets into this mystical world of blogging. So why to should start a blog then? I think after the debacle of orkut this is the next best thing to do….it gives me a chance to express myself so as to widen my horizon and to explore myself….it gives me a platform to write things I cant tell to anybody , to express feelings which cannot be expressed , to tell stories which have no listeners…in short anything under the sun I feel like writing I can write ……..also since I am free these days free from everything ( will tell you about this in some other post) it’s a right time to start a new era …the new beginning………so guys and girls , friends and enemies( mere hai koi?) tighten your seat belts , hold on to your breath and get ready for this amazing ride into the SAMMY ZONE…………………..